The 11 Best Pegging Toys, According to Sex Experts

The pegging sex toy earning the highest podium place is the Pegging Newbie Bundle by anal sex company, b-Vibe. A great choice for beginner and intermediate anal sex-havers, this strap-on kit comes with the infamous Novice Butt Plug which is 1-inch thick and 3-inches long. Plus, a harness and the Pegasus Pegging dildo of your choosing. When you purchase the toy you’ll get to choose which 6-inch, curved dildo is best for you and your partner(s).

Your move: Wear the butt plug and enjoy a lengthy pre-penetrative session. This will teach your anal muscles how to relax around something, while also getting you accustomed to the sensation of being full. Once you’re used to the sensation, you can transition to using the rest of the pegging equipment.

Pros

• Base doubles as a suction cup, which is great for solo sex
• Some texture but not too much
• Posable shaft allows for customized shape
• Doubles as a pack-and-play
• Non-realistic shape and color will be appealing to some

Proudly sporting a silver medal is the Fun Factory Limba Flex Dildo which, as its name suggests, is flexible. “Thanks to an internal posable core, this dildo has the ability to bend,” explains Finn. “This allows you to adjust the shape of the toy based on where the receiver’s hot-spots are.” Given that different anal sex positions will alter the depth and angle needed to reach the prostate, this feature ensures you’ll have the most pleasurable pegging experience every single time.

As a bonus, the dildo also features a super tapered tip which allows for easy entry.

The Lovehoney Strap-On Harness Kit Triple is a four-piece set that comes with one harness and three dildos of graduating sizes. The smallest is a slim, 6-inch option while the larger two are thicker and measure 6- and 8-inches long, respectfully. The breadth of dildo lengths and sizes allows you to gradually (and comfortably!) work your way up to bigger and better things.

The strappy harness has a built-in pocket for a bullet vibe, which can be incorporated to deliver vibration to the wearer as well as transform the dildo into a vibrating dildo. (The bullet vibrator is not included). “The harness’s design also makes it so the vulva or testicles are still while it’s being worn, which means they can still be stimulated with fingers or toys if the wearer desires,” says Frye-Nekrasova.

Just be sure to use condoms with these dildos as they are made from PVC, which cannot be sterilized.

If anal penetration is new to you, and you don’t want to shell out too much cash, the Lovehoney Beginner’s Strap-On Harness Kit could be the way to go. The dildo included in the bundle is on the shorter and slimmer side —it has just 4.5 inches of insertable length and is just one-finger thick. Despite being small, “the dildo is curved in such a way that makes it a good choice for stimulating the prostate,” notes Frye-Nekrasova.

The harness can be adjusted to fit hips that are 18 to 68 inches around, which means it can be shared by people with different body shapes. It also has a bullet vibrator pocket and is machine washable. Three cheers for easy clean-up.

Hands down, the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is the best strap-on sex kit on the market at its price-point. Ringing up for less than most à la carte dildos, this pegging package contains an adjustable harness, two different dildos, and a bullet vibrator that can transform the strap-on into a vibrating one.

The smaller of the two dildos is just 0.8 inches thick and 4 inches long, while the other is 1 inch thick and 5.5 inches long. Both sized for beginner or intermediate anal-sex explorers, this option is ideal for people who need or prefer a more petite phallus.

Behold: a strapless strap-on! Rather than getting secured into a harness, the Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Strap gets secured into the wearers… vagina! “The egg-shaped side goes inside the wearer, where it hugs the vaginal walls and stimulates the G-spot,” explains Finn. Using their pelvic floor muscles, the wearer can then hold onto the toy and thrust the larger arm in and out of their partner.

The dildo features a bulbous head, which can procure a pleasurable pop when it goes into and out of the anus, notes Finn. Actually, the sensation is similar to that of anal beads and thus a good option for pleasure-seekers who are a sucker for a string.

Happy Rabbit Vibrator Strapless Strap-On…try to say that ten times fast! This is another vibrating pegging toy that is designed to secure into the wearer’s vagina. “The bean-shaped smaller arm is designed to stimulate the wearer’s G-spot, while the mini rabbit ears that extend off the base will stimulate the clitoris,” explains Finn.

The two sides of the double-ended dildo are connected with a bendable hinge, which means it can be positioned to accommodate the specific shape of the wearer’s anatomy. Once adjusted, however, it’s sturdy so you don’t have to worry about the toy changing shape mid-peg. Phew!

No doubt, lube makes all kinds of sex wetter and better—but it’s especially important for butt stuff, since the anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina can. Typically, silicone-based lube is best for anal sex, as it’s thick and long-lasting. However, silicone-based lube can damage silicone-based sex toys—i.e. the pegging equipment on this list.

When pegging with silicone toys, Frye-Nekrasova recommends opting for a thicker, water-based anal lubricant for your next pegging adventure, like the Lovehoney Water-Based Anal Lube. Remember to reapply liberally!

Clap it up for the best harness on the market: The SpareParts Joque. What makes this jock-style harness tops? For starters, it’s adjustable AF. The smaller size (size A) fits hips 20 to 50 inches around, while the larger option (size B) accommodates hips 35 to 60 inches around.

Free from buckles and other bulk, this sleek harness can be worn under your clothes, says Finn, for instance, if you are going to a sex party or traveling to a hook-up. Oh, and it has two separate pockets for bullet-vibrators that can be used to provide additional sensation for the wearer, or turn the dildo into a vibrating dildo.

FYI, if you have a penis, you can peg people, too. “Penis owners can use strap-on devices like the SpareParts Deuce Male Harness which features two holes: one for the dildo and one for their penis,” explains Sparks.

You can switch between using your penis and the dildo, which makes it super-duper useful if someone has erectile dysfunction, says Sparks. They can use the dildo to penetrate their partner when they are soft, and quickly change to using their penis in the event that they do get an erection, she says. Or, you can use both penis and the dildo for some double penetration (DP) action.