The 21 Best Oral Sex Toys in 2023, According to Experts

Pros

• Waterproof
• App-controlled
• 1-year warranty

One of the best oral sex sleeves comes from Lelo, and while it’s on the pricier side, you get what you pay for by way of technology, durability, and sheer pleasure. Instead of having to move your own hand (like if you were masturbating the old-fashioned way), the app-enabled device actually does the work for you via four different, customizable programs that do what mouths could only dream of.

“It might look like a coffee canister, but inside is a super-soft silicone sleeve packed with ripples, raised nubs and dips to tantalise your shaft,” said one tester. “Although the real pleasure comes from the four customisable programs and responsive sensors, meaning you can tailor it to your tackle.”

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Pros

• Extra strength
• Easy to clean
• Safe with silicone and water-based lube

Dr. Jenni suggests this award-winning 6.5-inch sleeve for anyone craving suction and ease. Many reviewers say it feels like a real blowjob, and while this one isn’t powered (so you have to do the motion yourself), the stimulation is worth it. Plus, with openings on both sides, it’s easy to clean and incorporate into partner play.

“The first time my girl used this on me … BANG!” said one Adam & Eve Reviewer. “I came way faster than any hand-job she ever gave me!”

Pros

• Comes in a variety pack
• Disposable

Tenga Eggs are one of the most innovative masturbation toys for penises, and they offer a sensation that’s like oral sex, but maybe even better. All you have to do is squeeze some lube in the egg, pull it over your penis, and do your thing. Each egg in this 6-pack features a different texture for unique experiences, plus these can easily be used solo, with a partner, and even on vulvas.

“The Tenga toys are some of our best-selling products,” says Jessica Gordon, managing partner of LUVOQA, an online boutique that sells high-end sex toys. “Each masturbation sleeve has a unique interior that offers different sensations of varying intensities.”

Most strokers have one pressure setting, but this sleek option from Satisfyer gives you the ability to determine how tight of a squeeze you want with the touch of a simple button. Don’t forget the lube since the texture inside feels best—and most mouth-like—with lots of it.

The German company behind it has a rock-hard (pun intended) reputation for great sex toys and this one is no exception. We like the sleek frame as well as the pump-powered suction, borrowing from out of this world real life BJs. It travels with ease and the ultra-soft cyberskin makes for great contact.

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Pros

• 20 vibration modes
• 8 speeds

If you want a diverse toy that can give you the feeling of oral sex but has other uses, Tanner suggests wands like this masturbator from Man Wand. Reviewers say this vibrating toy, in particular, is great if you have trouble getting or staying hard, and with some lube and circular motions, it can feel exactly like a blowjob.

“Vibrations are plenty powerful, plenty of vibration patterns, very ergonomic and easy to maneuver around with, soft and comfortable, nicely sized and easy to hold, truly a unisex toy for him and her,” said one amazon.com reviewer.

Molded directly from Sasha Grey’s actual mouth, this 5 ½” phthalate-free stroker is made from skin-like UR3 to feel extremely life-like. The lip and tongue design makes the experience more realistic to the point that one review says this toy is actually better than oral sex. Heat it up in warm water first to take things to the next level.

“This ain’t your typical masturbation sleeve,” says MH Executive Editor Jordyn Taylor. “This one is molded after the mouth and lips of porn performer Sasha Gray, so it’s just—or, well, sort of—if you really use your imagination—like she’s giving you a BJ.”

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Sex machines are pretty much exactly what they sound like (machines that simulate sex), and the Hummer 2.0 is tops for having solo oral sex. The suction sleeve—which is detachable and can be used on its own—moves up and down your penis hand-free, and the actual machine features six speeds, 10 vibration patterns, and randomizes to feel realistic as you sit back and enjoy.

” It comes in at the pricier end of the sex machine spectrum, but consider this an investment piece that offers legitimate bang for your buck,” said one MH tester.

Though it looks simple, this 3” long sleeve is an essential everyone should have at the ready. Made from lifelike ULTRASKYN that warms to the touch, the internal massaging beads create a mouth-like sensation, especially when used with ample lube. The sleeve is great solo but doubles as a couple’s toy that makes oral sex and hand jobs better for everyone involved.

“It’s very stretchy, but also maintains enough tension to perform as designed,” said one Adam & Eve reviewer.

Pros

• Versatile
• Open-ended design

Because it’s open-ended, you can use the Manta for various types of play. You can use it as stroker during solo play, turn your penis into a vibe during couples’ play, or dial your blowjobs up to 11 by using it on the base of your penis while your partner sucks your head.

One reviewer wrote, “Legit almost passed out during my first session with this toy. 10/10, would recommend.”

Pros

• 11 pulsating levels
• 10 vibration modes
• Waterproof

“For those with a clitoris, sucking toys like the Satisfyer Breathless are excellent,” explains Dr. Jenni. “It comes with a multitude of speeds and intensities for all types of stimulation. It can build arousal slowly, or just right in for an efficient orgasm.” Slim and ergonomically shaped, this toy is easy to fit between bodies to use solo or together.

All these reasons and more make the Breathless a quality choice. The toy is built for the tailor-made experience, working with whatever mood you’re in (or how much time you have). With eleven pulsating levels, ten vibration modes and little puffs of breath-like air, get ready for multiple orgasms.

Easy-to-grip and discrete at just 2.75 inches long, this silicone clitoral vibrator comes with a travel lock making it ideal for tossing in your luggage. The smaller size doesn’t take away from the power, though. The scooped opening surrounding the lips and clit has a tongue-shaped teaser that filters between 12 impressive vibration patterns.

If there were tongue olympics, this toy would always be on the medal stand. That particular sensation is really where it excels, able to do all of those flicks and flutters you see in the most gifted of porn stars. As one reviewer says, you get perfect execution without any backtalk. On top of that, you get stamina as well, as the stimulator can do fully-charged shifts of 50 minutes.

The rechargeable Womanizer Liberty is one of the most popular clitoral oral sex vibrators around thanks to the unique Pleasure Air™ Technology that provides a realistic (and direct) suction feeling. Six intensity levels are easy to switch between via the surface buttons and the small size makes it a fun addition to couple’s play as well.

The gentle air vibrations create an orgasm unlike anything you’ve ever experienced. Moreover, you get to stimulator heads to fool around with as you seek out that ideal fit. Want to get off in the bath or shower? Please do, as the Liberty is fully waterproof and a two hour-long charge (trust us, you’ll only need a few minutes).

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Most toys on this list are designed for solo play, but this one specifically is great to use with a partner. The mini stretch vibe slips on the tongue to add extra sensation while giving oral sex. You can also put it over your finger to use on the frenulum, nipples, or other erogenous zones if you’re not feeling the tongue thing.

Versatile, it fits over a variety of tongue sizes and can stretch over multiple fingers too. The texture essentially puts you or your partner’s tongue on steroids, making it feel better, more interesting and offering a one-of-a-kind buzz, powered by a pair of cell batteries.

The unique, 2-in-1 design of this clit-sucking vibrator hits all the pleasure zones. It’s one of the few dual-stimulation models in this year’s round-up. It’s thicker than most of the competition making it a perfect fit (pun intended) for some. Although some reviewers noted it was a little too thick, but if that’s your thing, this is the model for you. One more bonus: It has a heating function for added comfort.

The orgasmic functions can be independently controlled, offering tons of permutations and reason to experiment often, on a quest for that mind-blowing O. The special surface coating is incredibly life-like and the ergonomic design means great handling and precise treatments of pleasurable target areas.

This licking, sucking, vibrating toy does it all, making it an ideal choice for someone who wants a little bit of everything. With an insertable end, a tongue with eight licking modes, and two attachable suction cups (one for the clit and one for the nipples), it’s worth the higher price for all the play options it provides.

Great for individuals or couples who might be a bit shy around the subject, it’s an inviting toy with great functionality and looks deceptive enough you could almost claim it was a portable fan or something. The shaft reaches hot spots, the five inches of insertable length do the job and the dual motors power it to no end. Get busy on your own or call it in as the imaginary third person as you experiment with your partner.

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Pros

• Body safe materials
• 8 settings
• Waterproof

“If you know your body is more sensitive and desire lighter stimulation, select a toy like Sila Cruise that uses sonic waves instead of direct contact to simulate the softness of the tongue or a light sucking motion,” says Tanner. “Its large mouth accommodates different clit sizes and pleasures the whole clit, not just the center. It’s also made of soft, warm silicone.”

While the touch can be delicate, the results can be powerful. An international best-seller, the product is great for foreplay and comes with both a detailed instruction manual and handy satin pouch. If a slow built to pleasure town is your thing, go with this skilled sex toy.

Pros

• Great price
• Waterproof

“I love recommending the Romp Shine to those who are seeking a less pricey option,” says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven. “It has 10 intensity levels and a discrete motor.” It’s compact, lightweight, and super-simple to use, making this a great option for those who appreciate easy-to-use, no-frills sex toys without the need for connected smartphone apps. The body-safe silicone is also 100% waterproof and makes clean-up a breeze, too.

Because air pressure is used, there’s no concern around overstimulation or soreness. It packs well in case you want to upgrade your next roadtrip or vacation and it can handle some exploration at the beach or in the pool. The straightforwardness of it is a major turn on, as the toy does a lot more than what you’d expect from a two-button piece.

Pros

• Single button design for ease
• Splash-proof
• USB rechargeable

Shaped like a flower but made for getting laid, INYA’s Rose Stimulator is a gift that’ll impress aesthetically and sexually. The focused stimulation features three speeds and seven patterns that work just as well on the nipples as it does on the clitoris. Use with a water-based lube for the best results.

It’s the kind of toy you don’t have to tuck away in a box or drawer when it’s not in use. Better, you get all of the above functions with just a single button (another reason why it doesn’t look like your typical toy). The Rose is lightweight and a joy to hold, a guaranteed new favorite in the clitoris stimulator category.